What it feels like once a woman learns to have sex: Her body will open to yours and she will want your body connecting with hers. A good lover is one who is extremely patient, waits for the woman to orgasm first and allows her to discover her own body. She has to train the guy to follow her lead in order for him to make it a happy experience for her. The rougher the thrusting the better. Still you are not enjoying as much as the books and movies or porn show you.